Aren’t alterations in a plan or changes in our lives just inevitable. As a person who always knows what I’m doing a week from know this bothers me. Recently Ash and I made a huge change, we are renting a house and trying so hard to make it on our own. Adult hood is hard, but inevitable like change. I recently read a post on Facebook about Adult hood, how it’s like when you were a kid and you were bouncing on the trampoline and you would fall and everyone would keep jumping and it made it impossible to get up. Yeah that’s exactly what being an adult is like. Enough about how being anaduly sucks I bet you want to hear bout our new place. Well loving someone and living with someone are two completely different things. You find out all these weird habits about someone that you would never guess. I will not bow up Ashs spot right now but I will tell you I am working on conditioning her to behave the way I want. Am I a horrible person for doing that. Anyways I have class in the morning so I will end this post. 



June 6th 2017

Long time no see, well for the three people that actually read this. Anyways. A lot has changed since the last time I posted here. Ash and I have decided that this trip shouldn’t be stressful, so we stoped diligently planing each stop and made the decision to wing it. We also decided to move in together, finally! With that in mind, life expenses are a struggle so we might be postponing the trip ☹️. No worries my many followers, I plan to turn this blog into an adult advice/ life lessons blog. ONLY until the trip. To start off I would like to scream from every rooftop HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!! For some people June is just the kick off to summer while for the rest of us it’s a whole month dedicated to us and our labels of lack there of. As many of you may not know, I’m gay. I walked out of that figurative closet in a blaze of glory six years ago. So pride month is pretty exciting for me because even though there are still haters out there I feel more comfortable in my skin. Even if some looser makes a rude comment all I can think is “ITS FREAKIN’ PRIDE MONTH DEAL WITH IT”. I know I should have that mindset everyday every month so, what I want to send home with all of you is that it doesn’t matter what other people think, it only matters what you think. Do what’s right for you, not what others want you to do. I mean you can take their opinion into consideration but if you don’t want to do it, then don’t. As simple as that. You are the most important person to you, so you should come first. Always. So as Dr. Seuss put it, be the best you you can be. 



Big Heart, Big Impact

March 17, 2017

I was thinking about this trip and how I don’t want it to just be about two woman traveling North America, I want it to make an impact. I know that’s a lot to ask for us but I think we can do it, however big or small the impact is. So I was doing some research and there are a lot of places that will take one time or one day volunteers. I’m pretty excited about helping people across The Country. It makes me feel good, and if this whole trip falls apart because my family doesn’t want to meet me, at least I have helped out others along the way. But I hope my family wants to meet me, I really want to learn more about myself and where I come from. Either way I still get to go cross country with the best person I can think of: Ash. 

March, Do It, Go Fourth

March 4, 2017 🍃

We were talking about the fact that Ash needs to get her license before the trip so I don’t have to drive the whole time. And since their parents give them anxiety and are way to overprotective to teach her well, I was going to teach her how to drive but, then we realized that I haven’t had my license long enough. So if we got caught she would go to jail and I would get my license suspended. And the trip wouldn’t be happening on time.
I then accidently created a personal challenge for Ash because I didn’t actually think they would get their license.

Also there was a boat

I’m really excited about this trip but there is this doubt in my mind about whether or not it’s actually gonna happen. I keep telling myself that no matter what I will make this trip happen.